Underpaid, oversexed and over here...

[VladMamu]

Originally posted by al Furqaan
everyone has their own standards of beauty...

plus, there are very attractive people from all races, ethnicities, et al.

so to say that malaysians aren't attractive is borderline retarded.

agreed !

[Sorry]

this is my personal observation about fancying bangladeshi men by women from different countries:

scandinavian and rest of european: they like bangladeshi men when they go abroad for holiday.
reason: probably they like to try different taste.
sri lankan and philipines: many sri lankan and philipines women who live abroad find bd men very attractive.
reason: probably easier and lack of substitutes.

russian: they find bd men very attractive genuinely.
reason: they think russian men are stupid.

overall, there is a good demand for bd men who are fairly good looking, just need to be in the right place.

btw, does anyone know what is population ratio of male and female in malaysia?

Edited on, March 18, 2006, 6:07 PM GMT, by Sorry.

[VladMamu]

Originally posted by Sorry


btw, does anyone know what is population ratio of male and female in malaysia?

Edited on, March 18, 2006, 6:07 PM GMT, by Sorry.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Demographics_of_Malaysia

1.07 males for every female. Same as India.

[Sorry]

Originally posted by VladMamu

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Demographics_of_Malaysia

1.07 males for every female. Same as India.

thanks mamu.

after reading the earlier posts about looks, i forgot to mention that modern women don't choose men because of their looks now a days, rather they look at men's hands to decide who is the right man. they think ' the bigger the hands are, the better the equipment is'. so people who have small hands and intend to approach modern women, should hide their hands to avoid disappointment.

[VladMamu]

Well actually Sorry, back a semester or two in Social Psychology we studies "why women are attracted to men." I brought it up in another thread. They did tests and trials.

Though there are excpetions, women are attracted to men who promise them a stable, secure, future for themselves and there offspring.

For example. In one study they asked hundreds of women to rate which men is more attractive. These men were already rated by another similar group and.

Man A. was rated very attractive.
Man B. was rated very unattractive.

Then, Man A. was dressed up in a Burger King Outfit.
Man B was dressed up in a suite and tie.

So now, Man B was rated overwhelmingly as attractive. In other words, for women, from an evolutionary perscpective, it's about survival of themselves and their offspring.

Now in college, it is the potential stability that is important, so a young college lady would be attracted to a man that has great potential.

Of course in traditional Arranged marriages it doesn't really matter, because the women do not have a choice. However, in modern partly arranged marriages a women has 'some' choice.

In multicultural societies, this fact would transcend ethnicity, skin colour, nationality and even religion, too. It is the perceived stability that would be imporant.

However, in well-off countries, another factor is coming into play over the last twenty years that is changing things. Women are starting to work, get paid, get power, get equality, and they have a choice about when/if they can have a baby, or babies.

So now, since their survivial and stability is taken care off to a degree, they are starting to act like men.

In other words, their survival does not depend on the men anymore. Therefore, they are now looking more at things souch as him being more Romantic, Kind, Stable emotionaly, and good looking. Perhaps he shaves, works out, keeps fit. But again, good looking is hard to define. Some women like tall men, others feel intimidated by them. Some like muscular men, others feel intimidated by them. And than, many women do have racial preferences in Multicultural countries. Many white girls really do find Black men (however American Black men, not recent immigrants) very attractive. In some towns of America 50% of Black men are married to white women. However, in other towns, 66% of Chinese "American" women marry white men and find them attractive. And on and on it goes, I could talk about it forever.

So the key is this. If the marriage is not arranged, you have to decide what is your surroundings. If you live in a poorer country, your "looks" well depend only on the kind of future you can offer. Level of education, potential future earnnings or present will be a significant "attractive" quality.

However, in rich countries, and where 95% are employed, including women, they are less dependent on men. Hence, now you have more to think about.

Opening the door for her to the car would be nice. Definitely lots of foreplay. Not loosing your anger. Giving her choice about where you go together, what you do, what movie you watch. 50/50 really. Every moment is a compromise and a discussion. In short, emotional stability. Further, love (or a feeling that makes you feel good when together, lots to talk about, an element of trust, a sense of freedom you give to the women, AND even the emotional security of being together because you want to and enjoy it, hence, even if one partner were to opt out, no murder would be committed, as this is unerstood in a love marriage. You continute to make the 'love' grow, DAILY, or else you could loose her/him to someone else because you let it die.

Still, women do look at income and stuff like that too. A LOT ACTUALLY. If a women has 4 years university, she would like a male with at least equal education as her. This makes sense, since, they would have lots to talk about, and a similar vocabulary.

So you see, it is very complicated of what is attractive and what is not, however, it is a very fascinating and growing area of research.

But do be aware, in rich countries, you must be a lot more competitive. Money isn't everything anymore.

Hope that was interesting for you. It's a fascinating topic, the topic of Attraction.

cheers.